Why Shy Can Be a Superpower

Here’s something I’ve noticed: shy couples often bring something incredibly special to a session. There’s an intimacy, a kind of quiet tenderness, that’s really beautiful to photograph. When you’re not putting on a show for the camera, you’re free to just… be. And that’s when the real magic shows up.

You don’t need to turn into an extrovert for the sake of the photos. You just need a photographer in Marbella who knows how to guide you gently, without making you feel like you’re on display.

So, What Actually Happens During the Shoot?

First off, we’re not diving straight into anything intense. We’ll take a walk, get a feel for the space—maybe it’s the beach in Marbella, maybe a quiet corner in Malaga’s old town—and we’ll chat. About travel, weird dreams, favorite snacks… whatever takes the edge off.

No awkward silence. No barked instructions. Just movement and conversation. And when I guide you, it won’t be “pose like this.” It’ll be more like: “Walk toward me like you’re heading to the bar on a Friday night” or “Can you whisper something ridiculous in their ear?”

Shy people actually tend to thrive with this kind of direction—it’s playful, not performative. And it works.

Quick Tips to Make Things Easier

• Bring a comfort item. Sounds weird, but having something familiar—even a favorite jacket or piece of jewelry—can help you feel grounded.

• Pick a location that feels like you. We don’t have to shoot in front of a famous landmark. If you feel calm near the water, we’ll head to the sea. If quiet gardens feel better, that’s perfect too.

• Breathe. Seriously. Deep breaths. I’ll take care of the rest.

• Don’t look at the camera if you don’t want to. Some of the most emotional, moving shots happen when you’re focused on each other.

What My Shy Clients Say Afterward

“This wasn’t what I expected. It actually felt… easy.”

“Honestly, we thought we’d hate every photo. Turns out we couldn’t choose just one.”

“I was worried I’d feel self-conscious, but you made it feel like we were just hanging out. And the photos? I still get emotional looking at them.”

That’s what it’s all about.